Never Can Say Goodbye is deliciously woven from threads of guidance, memory, and devotion to the sacred labor of holding space at the end of life."

—Alua Arthur, author of Briefly Perfectly Human

Book cover with a red background, featuring a silhouette of a bird and a mountain, displaying the title 'Never Say Goodbye' and the subtitle 'The Life of a Death Doula and the Art of a Peaceful End' by Darnell Lamont Walker.

Never Can Say Goodbye: The Life of a Death Doula and the art of a peaceful end

Compelling narrative that illuminates the role of a death doula and the often-unseen ways people show up for one another at the end of life.

Across cultures and communities, death is frequently surrounded by silence and uncertainty. Many of us are taught to avoid conversations about loss, grief, and dying, even as we find ourselves quietly doing this work for loved ones, sitting at bedsides, holding hands, listening to final stories, and loving people through their last moments. Never Can Say Goodbye invites readers to recognize this shared human experience and to see themselves in the sacred act of holding space.

In his debut book Never Can Say Goodbye, death doula, Darnell Lamont Walker:

  • Delves into the reasons behind the silence surrounding death, especially within the Black community.

  • Narrates his personal experiences of holding space for individuals at the end of their lives.

  • Guides and comforts those navigating grief, who silently mourn.

Quote by Nikuyah Walker about never saying goodbye, encouraging writing a love letter to oneself as a form of preparation and embracing life.
Red background with text: 'Never Can Say Goodbye' at the top. Quote by Helen Bauer: 'Never Can Say Goodbye is the field guide for the walk we will all take, the must-have death resource for every human.' Below, her credentials are listed. At the bottom, the date 'On Shelves 2.10.26' is shown along with a small Harper One logo.
Book cover with red background, titled 'Never Can Say Goodbye.' Contains a quote by Lisa Keefauver about exploring the meaning of space and supporting people at the end of their lives. Published by HarperOne.
Red background with black text. The top reads "NEVER CAN SAY GOODBYE." A quote in the center states, 'Darnell doesn’t just teach us how to die well—he teaches us how to live more meaningfully in the face of mortality.' attributed to Claire Bidwell Smith. At the bottom, it says, 'ON SHELVES 2.10.26'. In the lower right corner, a small logo with 'Harper One' printed on it.
Quote on red background: "Never can say goodbye" and a quote by Lisa Pahl about a book that inspires and moves people, with the words "On Shelves 2.10.26" at the bottom.

Upcoming Events

  • Solid State Books

    06.01 7:00-8:00PM

    Join us for an evening hosted by The DC Death Collective with author Darnell Lamont Walker in conversation with Jaya Saxena

  • Aging In Community Conference

    06.02 9:00-4:00PM

    Systemic barriers, including housing affordability, transportation limitations, and social isolation, often prevent people from aging in community.

  • Esalen Institute

    06.05 - 06.07

    For the Self Guided Experience. This workshop is not about fear or darkness. It is about clarity, connection, preparation, and love.

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